Autumn's Notes
for the Wild Quiet Beyond Life's Rocky Roads

There is a world happening around us that we might miss when we're constantly being asked to look somewhere else.

There's a kind of tired that has nothing to do with sleep. It's the tired that comes from trying to keep up with everyone who has an opinion about your body.

Sometimes we don't choose a life so much as we slowly step into one. We follow expectations. We do what makes sense. We become good at carrying things. But there is always a moment when we can begin asking a different question: What would I choose if I was listening to myself?

They are the choices we make when no one is watching—the pause before a sharp word, the decision not to join in when everyone else does, the quiet act of caring for something that doesn't belong to us.

The older I get, the more I wonder if what many of us experience isn't a crisis at all. Maybe it's simply the first time we become still enough to hear ourselves.